The Spicy Rules
PLAY ALLOWANCES VARY DEPENDNING ON VENUE
Some of our events are kink events, meaning there will be a dungeon but no penetrative play or "bits" out, and some will be play events where that will be allowed. Rules will be clarified in the event listing and at the door.
Salem Burns Events are kink friendly, sex positive, dance friendly, dress code mandatory, debauchery welcome space. You may participate in as much or as little as you desire within our parameters, as long as extensive enthusiastic consent is taking place.
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All of our events have a professionally monitored BDSM dungeon + playful plounge.
ARRIVE EARLY
Upon arrival, you will be briefed on the code of conduct for the evening. This will require an extra few minutes at the door. Please arrive early to avoid congestion at the door and don't miss the performances.
DRESS CODE IS IN EFFECT
That means NO STREET CLOTHES. Please come in your fetish or costumed best. We will turn you away at the door if you don’t make an effort.
DO NOT INTERRUPT A SCENE
If someone is playing with someone else in the dungeon or the plounge, do no interrupt them unless they explicitly invite you in. Those in the scene have right of way.
RADICAL CONSENT ALWAYS
Consent is extremely 100000% mandatory. Remember: only an enthusiastic YES MEANS YES!
Ask everything from can I talk to you, can I dance with you to can I touch you etc. Always ask first, state your own boundaries clearly, accept rejection respectfully, never assume anything.
NO BLOOD PLAY
NO water sports, blood, skat or fluid exchange. Use protection and clean up after yourself. If this is restrictive to you, you're not thinking creatively enough ;)
Not coerced or pressured. Consenting to one thing does not mean you consent to more. If you don't understand the request, ask to have it clarified. A “yes” should be enthusiastic or it's a no. You can change your mind at any time. If you think you are asking for too much consent too often, that’s probably the right amount.
CONSENT IS GIVEN
There will be a bar available, but we have a zero tolerance policy for irresponsible intoxication. If you get too intoxicated, you will be asked to leave.
MODERATE YOUR SUBSTANCE INTAKE
This is a queer foreword space. Salem welcomes an inclusive community and folks of all sexual orientations, gender expressions, abilities, body types, and racial identities/ethnicities. Disrespectful behavior will not be tolerated.
RESPECT OUR SPACE AND EACH OTHER
You are likely to encounter nudity and adult activities on site. There is never an expectation for any guest to participate, but please be respectful of those participating, and always ask before interacting with anyone.
ADULT ACTIVITIES WILL BE TAKING PLACE AT THIS EVENT.
Vibe check will be wearing glowing arm bands all night. If you witness behavior at the event that goes against our code of conduct, don’t be afraid to speak up, It’s up to all of us to help ensure a safe space for our fellow guests. We encourage you to speak to one of the helpers on duty if you have any concerns, require assistance or need some grounding.
ABIDE BY OUR RULES
Special thanks to the Kinky Salon for providing a template for code of conduct, ya’ll are the sexiest.